Full of wisdom, goodness, and compassion for those who know the agony and shame of domestic violence. I think people don't understand being in a abusive relationship that's more verbal. This treasure of a book invites the reader into understanding of the view of men that if embraced would radically alter how victims address this heartache. This is a must-read book. If you or some one you know are or may be in an abusive relationship or even just getting out of one this book is for you. This book has left an indelible mark on myself and my partner. Never again will I assume men don't suffer domestic abuse.